A Truly Unrequited Mindset

A Truly Unrequited Mindset

When we are honest enough with ourselves,we find that when we interact or work with others, we are always having some selfish thoughts and motivations.

Thoughts such as:
How do we get extra benefits and advantages for ourselves,or planning on getting ahead for the future etc.In fact,we are all in the mindset of taking.

What we need to change in ourselves when we meet someone,is to not expect something or take or gain from them.We do not want a relationship with them.We just only want to help or benefit them.

If someone can learn to change themselves after talking and connecting with us, then that's enough.

Perhaps they will change from outward pursuit to inward introspection,from greed to contentment and giving, and even begin to seek the true meaning of life.
We are happy for them, but at the same time have no desires or expectations from them.
People with truly positive energy is in a state of mind,naturally contented and at ease,without any attachments.

To achieve such a state of being free and desiring nothing, it is important to learn the wisdom inherited from the enlightened ones. Only such wisdom can create a correct inner environment.