克夫的女人，怎么改变命运

How to change the fate of a jinx wife

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社会上有一个很不正常的现象，就是很多文艺作品呀，是以欺压老公、打压老公，以老公战战兢兢唯唯诺诺、如老鼠见猫般的形式来取悦观众的，这就给广大的妇女同志传递了一个女强男弱，理应被老婆贬损打压的意识形态，这样做对家庭是百害无一利的。
It is not unusual for pieces of art trying to please an audience to feature an abnormal cat-mouse relationship where a weak and cowardly husband is being bullied and executed by a tough wife. It results in a popular misunderstanding among women that female superiority at home is taken for granted. To me, it does more harm than good
因为男人需要尊重、女人需要爱，那些经常奚落男人的家庭一定是不和美的，这还是小事，这种家庭的男人往往多病，甚至短命。

As men need respect while women need love, families where a husband is subjected to ridicule are the last place you would find happiness. What’s worse, men from these families are often dogged by bad health or even death.
而这种强势暴躁的女人表现在相貌上，就是克夫相。
These aggressive explosive women look just like a jinx.
当然，也有些男人不会被克，是因为他心量大，宽容，实在忍受不了，他也不恨女人，他知道分手、离婚。
Of course, some men are so tolerant and forgiving that they don’t care. Pushed too far, they would resort to divorce without any hatred.

而那些在家庭中，被欺压、被奚落的男人，大多比较善良，对家庭比较负责，在外工作往往受人欺负，本来在工作中压力就够大了，回家以后还要受到老婆的数落，时间长了，能不生病吗？
Those bullied and executed husbands are mostly kind and responsible men who bear enormous working pressure as well as domestic violence exerted by their wives. Eventually they would get ill.
你不妨再打量一下你的男人，被你说得越来越没有自信心了，他还有拼搏的意识和斗志吗？
Looking narrowly at your man, don’t you notice that he is losing his confidence and his will to fight hard?

所以，奉劝那些强势的女人，要管好自己的情绪，提高自己的修养，别一发怒就蛇剑出鞘，贬损对方没本事、废物、扶不上墙的烂泥，别忘了你们是一家人，不能说两家话。
Therefore, it’s strongly advised that those aggressive women regulate their emotions and better themselves rather than attack their husbands in a fit of rage by trashing them. After all, you are a family.

要知道——卸载了精神的男人是撑不起一个家的，也成不了你的支柱，夫妻本是一个命运共同体。
You see, a man without vitality cannot serve as the family backbone. You two, as a couple, have a shared future.
那些因为发泄情绪，而获得一时快感的愚蠢的女人，最终，伤害的是你自己。
Women who derive fleeting pleasure with emotional outburst would eventually end up hurting themselves.

再也不要用怨气削弱男人的力量了，要做一个助夫、旺夫的女人，只有这样才能家运亨通，事事顺利。
Your resentment toward your man would weaken him. Why not serve as your husband’s helper and supportive partner? It’s the only guarantee of a prosperous and happy family.

下面不念，做视频片尾用【 摘自《智慧的能量》】

备注：
翻译人：许美琴 2022/04/14
校对：张广龙 2022/04/23