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快乐与自由
快乐的本质和真实的自由（5）
第5章 每个人的生命出厂模式是不一样的
第6章
所谓“生命的出厂模式”是指人类与生俱来的，潜在的智商、情商、灵商、和德商。生命的出厂模式加上成长环境构成了一个人的生命维度。所以说，人类的生命维度是不一样的。
那么什么是生命的维度呢？它是指一个人的生命境界。就好比孙悟空和如来佛，生命境界相差甚远，孙悟空七十二变、火眼金睛，神通广大，但怎么也跳不出如来佛的手掌心。这就是生命的维度不一样。
我们先分别解释一下，智商、情商、灵商和德商的概念。
智商（IQ），是对认知能力（“智力”）的测试，反映的是人的观察力、记忆力、思维力、想象力、创造力以及分析问题和解决问题的能力。而正常人的智商，大多在85到115之间。
情商（EQ）包含了自制、热忱、坚持，以及自我驱动、自我鞭策的能力。值得指出的是，情商固然包括人与人互动的层面，但情商的意义并非指谄媚、奉承、巴结、虚伪。
哈佛大学心理学博士丹尼尔·戈尔曼认为情绪智商包含五个主要方面：
4.了知他人的情绪和需求的能力，这是与他人正常交往，实现顺利沟通的基础；
5.调控自己与他人的情绪反应的能力。
灵商（SQ），是指人类的心灵智力，就是对事物本质的洞彻能力、超越逻辑思维的顿悟能力和直觉能力。灵商比智商的维度要高，灵商本身也是有不同的维度的，维度越高，灵商也越高。
德商（MQ），是一种知行合一的能力，它决定人类如何将普遍适用的一些原则（正直、责任感、同情心和宽恕）运用到个人的信念、愿景和行动中去。
德商包括的内容有：体贴、尊重、容忍、宽容、诚实、负责、平和、忠心、礼貌、幽默等一切美德。
德商比情商的维度高，德商本身也是有不同的维度的，维度越高，德商越高。
德商与灵商就像是一个物体的两面，德商更强调仁慈，灵商更强调智慧，当他们达到一定维度，这两个面就会融为一体，我们可以称之为“慧商”。
智商、情商、还有灵商、德商，我们把他们总称为“四商”。四商不是来源于遗传，人类的遗传基因是指DNA上的遗传信息，
基因有两个特点：一个是忠实地复制自己，第二个是受到外界的辐射有可能发生突变，而导致疾病。所以，人类的遗传基因只能在肉体上起作用，身体上跟父母长得比较相似或者相近，而四商却可能和父母相差甚远。不可能是遗传的。
这四商怎么可能在DNA上体现出来呢？DNA是由分子组成的，是生物体发育和正常运作必不可少的生物大分子，是属于化学级别的物质。而人的四商是人的心智，心智的能量形式不是分子和原子级别的，心智的能量级别是生物场能。
智商高、情商也高的父母，生出来的孩子有可能智商低、情商也低。反之亦然。
智商高、情商低的父母，生出来的孩子有可能智商低、情商高。反之亦然。
智商和情商高，但灵商和德商很低的父母，生出来的孩子
有可能智商和情商普通，但灵商和德商很高。反之亦然。还有其他的组合，我们就不举例了。
还有四种商都很高的人，是非常罕见的，但他们的父母很可能是普通人。
一个人的出厂模式和以后的生存环境决定了一个人的 四商，但是出厂模式起主导作用，是主因。当然，生存环境等外缘也很重要。生存环境包括他的生活环境，社会环境，教育环境等，对四商的开发都起到很重要的作用。下一章，我们讲接着讨论这个问题。 The essence of happiness and true freedom (5)
Chapter 5 Everyone's Framed Structure of Life is Different
The so-called "framed structure of life" refers to the innate potential, IQ, emotional quotient, spiritual quotient, and moral quotient. The framed structure of life and the growing environment constitute the dimensionality of a person's life. Therefore, they are different from one another.
So, what is the dimensionality of life? It refers to the realm in which someone lives their life. For instance, Sun Wukong vs Tathagata Buddha, the realms in which they live are very different. Sun Wukong has seventy-two transformations, fiery eyes, and vast supernatural powers, but he can't escape the palm of Tathagata Buddha. This is how the various dimensions of life differ s.
Let's first explain the four concepts: intelligence quotient, emotional quotient, spiritual quotient and virtue quotient.
Intelligence quotient (IQ), a test of cognitive ability ("intelligence"), reflects a person's ability to observe, remember, think, imagine, create, analyze and solve problems. The IQ of an average person is usually between 85 to 115.
Emotional quotient (EQ) includes self-control, enthusiasm, persistence, and the ability to be self-motivated and self-disciplined. It is worth pointing out that although emotional quotient includes all levels of human interaction, the meaning of emotional quotient does not refer to flattery, pleasing, favouritism and hypocrisy.
Daniel Gorman, a Ph.D. in psychology at Harvard University, believes that emotional quotient consists of five main aspects:
One. The ability to be aware of one’s own emotions, which is the core of emotional quotient,
Two. The ability to regulate and control one's emotions so that they can be expressed in a timely and appropriate manner.
Three. The ability to motivate oneself and be in command of our emotions, this ability can move people from the low point of life and to start all over again;
Four. The ability to understand the emotions and needs of others, which is the fundamental for normal interaction with others and smooth communication;
Five. The ability to regulate one's own and others' emotional responses.
Spiritual quotient (SQ) refers to the mental quotient of human beings, that is, the ability to penetrate the essence of things, the ability to understand and the intuition beyond logical thinking. Spiritual quotient has a higher dimension than IQ. Spiritual quotient itself also has different dimensions. The higher the dimension, the higher the spiritual quotient.
MQ (moral quotient) is the ability to synchronize knowledge and action; it determines how humans apply commonly applicable principles (integrity, responsibility, compassion, and forgiveness) to individual beliefs, visions, and actions.
The contents of virtue quotient include: consideration, respect, tolerance, forbearance, honesty, responsibility, peace, loyalty, courtesy, humor and other virtues.
Virtue quotient has a higher dimension than emotional quotient, and virtue quotient itself has different dimensions. The higher the dimension, the higher the virtue quotient.
Virtue quotient and spiritual quotient are like two sides of the same object. The former emphasizes kindness, while the latter emphasizes wisdom. When they reach a certain dimension, these two sides merge into one. We can call it "wisdom quotient".
Intelligence quotient, emotional quotient, spiritual quotient, and moral quotient are collectively referred to as the "four quotient". The four quotients do not come from heredity. Human genetics refers to the genetic information on DNA.
Genes have two characteristics: one is to faithfully replicate themselves, and the other is to be mutated by external radiation, which may lead to disease. Therefore, human genetics can only work on physical level; such as the similarity in appearance with the parents, however the four quotients may be vastly different from the parents. Thus, they should not be based on inheritance.
How are these four quotients be reflected in the DNA? DNA is composed of molecules. It is a biological macromolecule essential for the development and normal operation of organisms. It is a chemical-level substance. The four quotients of human beings are actually the human mind, since the energy form of the mind is not at the molecular and atomic level, and the energy level of the mind is the a biological energy field.
Parents with high IQ and high EQ may have children with low IQ and low EQ. The truth is same the other way around.
Parents with high IQ and low EQ may have children with low IQ and high EQ. The truth is same the other way around.
Parents with high IQ and EQ but low spiritual quotient and moral quotient may give birth to children with average spiritual quotient
IQ and EQ but high in spiritual quotient and moral quotient, the truth is same the other way around. Other combinations exist as well.
In addition, people high in all four quotients are exceptionally rare, their parents are likely to be just average people.
A person's framed structure and their upbringings will determine their four quotients, but the framed structure plays a leading role and is the determining factor. Of course, the outside factors, such as their living environment, social environment, educational environment, etc., play an important role in the development of the four quotients. These will be discussed later next chapter.