做个到处受欢迎的人

Being A Well-liked Person Everywhere

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摘自缁门崇行录 08
Excerpt from Record of Illustrious deeds of masters 08

光会动嘴皮子去要求别人，说得头头是道，自己又不去做或者做得不够的人，是不受人欢迎的。
One who is more a talker than a doer is unpopular because he pays just lip service while demanding too much of others.
相反，如果你什么都做在前面，说在后面，该说的时候说两句，以做为主，那你到哪里都会受欢迎的。

On the contrary, if you put doing ahead of speaking, speaking a few words only when the time comes, and focusing on doing, then you will be welcome wherever you go.

我们要做一个实干的人，不观别人的过失，好好修养自己的心性，以德来感化人，到哪里都行得通。
We are to be practical people who do not observe the faults of others but rather cultivate our own natures of mind and influence others with virtue. It is applicable everywhere.
你有德，心胸宽广、不生气、不嫌弃任何人，也不嫌活多，做什么都默默地做，哪有不受欢迎的？
How can you be unpopular if you are virtuous, forgiving, good-tempered, uncritical, and do a lot of work quietly without complaining?
到哪里都受欢迎，谁都喜欢你，这样的人福厚，肯定是有福报的人。
A doer, who is well-liked everywhere. He has been blessed with a great deal of good fortune.

所以我们要做这样的人，知行合一，做到才算。
Therefore, we must strive to be people who "walk the talk." What matters is what you do.

翻译：贝贝/koala
校对：张广龙
审稿： Nina